wasting time

Why do people not tell you they have a problem with you at the time they are having a problem with you, and then tell you too late making it impossible to fix what you have done?

Also, if they are not with you 24 hours a day and are not really aware of what it is you do, why do they have a "problem" with you? Accusing someone of spending to much time watching TV, spending too much money, not working enough... REALLY? Who are you to tell someone what is right or not?

It is easy to be a critic but not so much to be the criticized. I think it would behoove all of us to think of this when judging others: Until you have walked in their shoes and really know what it is like to live their life you have no right to look down on them...

I am not interested in dwelling on the past but seriously, WHY ARE SOME PEOPLE SO DUMB?